![]() If this is about attempting to influence or even force him into making a decision or at the very least, game-playing, re-evaluate your motives. Be honest with you about what you’re trying to achieve. He’ll just think that you’re crying wolf and it will only be a matter of time until you’re back in the affair hot seat. This is how you lose credibility and open you up to more pain. They often wonder, How the hell do I put an end to this affair and move on? I hope that these fifteen tips can help to put any woman who is in this situation on the road to feeling happier, secure, and free to move on to healthier relationships.īefore you go down the break-up route, do have an honest conversation with you and ask: Is this a half-hearted cry for attention from him that I hope will force his hand into making the decision to be with me? Many BR readers have been or are in an affair situation. It can feel like an exorcism that brings up every ugly thought and issue that you may have been unaware was rumbling around inside you. There’s the sense of rejection, loss, and even abandonment that can be activated by an affair. There’s also that all-pervasive fear that you’re going to break up with Mr Married/Attached at precisely that moment when he was actually going to leave his wife/girlfriend. ![]() ![]() Breaking up is generally hard to do even when we really want to and know that it’s the right thing.Īffairs can be extra tough to walk away due to fear that you haven’t been understanding and patient ‘enough’. At some point, you will become sick of the situation and will want to break off the affair. When you’re the Other Woman in an affair, it’s a rollercoaster of highs and lows. ![]() Tags: Abandonment, Being The Other Woman, cheating, Clingy, decision making, fear of abandonment in relationships, Feelings Diary, self-compassion, shame ![]()
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